The Big 3-5

Five years ago, when JD turned 30, I think I was so focused on how cool it would be to have a baby on his 30th, we didn't do anything else. Sorry, Love. And in the past five years, I have been super focused on planning LilE's parties that his birthday was just 'in the way'. There I said it. I am a horrible wife.

This year, being a half-decade way milestone, I decided to do something special. And yes, it involved some copying from other family members, but I knew it would be super special just the same. The gift was an book of encouraging words--not just some Hallmark book, but a book full of letters and pictures written specifically for him. Family and friends (new and old), co-workers, Life Group teachers, and families in the ministry all contributed to the birthday cause! I was brought to tears more than once over who took the time to write and the words that were written--about the man I love! VERY HUMBLING!

I took all the letters and compiled them into a MANLY scrapbook. It took a couple of days (and some lying) to get it all put together, but it was finished and wrapped just in time for our birthday dinner at Don Pablo's. And I wanted to be able to talk about something other than "I did a load of laundry today" so I made him open it before we headed out. HE. LOVED. IT!!

Why did I do it? Good question. Several years back we put together a book for my MIL's 65th. And we then did another one for my dad's 60th. Just priceless pages and pages of encouragement.

Step back in time with me a bit. Before JD and I got married, we read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. I related to Quality Time, followed by Physical Touch. JD's were Physical Touch and Quality Time. Six months ago (or maybe less) I asked him if his had changed (mine had not). He said they had. He really thought his, even way back then (kinda hard to tell when you are young, in love and living 250 miles from your girl) was Words on Encouragement. That is when the idea first hit me!

A gift is so much more fun when it is a surprise. What a blessing it was for me to be able to read cards from so many people who LOVE my husband. I love the ones of friends long ago sharing what JD meant to them and how his example made them a better person. I adore the hand drawn pictures from first graders with misspelled words. I cherish the co-workers words that share of his integrity. And I am thankful for the family who is encouraged by his words.

What an honor it is to be married to such a great man of God! Not only did this gift fill my husbands love tank, but it also was a humbling experience for me, and a great reminder of the GIFT God has given to me in him.

Happy Birthday JD!