Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Weekend Musings

Mimi and Pop were able to come up for the birthday weekend. As always, it is so fun to spend quality time with them. We started out by enjoying a birthday dinner at Mimi's Cafe. Little E was too funny. She saw a muffin (ahh, the muffins!) at the table next to us. When it's your birthday forget the veggies...a muffin she had! She wanted her "big bite" and she got it! She was just in her own little world talking to herself the whole time and savoring every bite! What I wouldn't give to have had my camera with me!
Saturday was party day followed by a long afternoon nap for all. Sunday we did the church thing and then hung out all afternoon and played with fun birthday presents.
Monday was another day around the house. I haven't figured out how to make it any better, but the day family leaves I seem to just crawl in my shell. I guess I figure if I don't interact it will make good byes easier. Well, it doesn't. I still cry every time they leave. As the years have gone by after leaving home, my parents have become my friends (isn't that what the goal is?) and I hate that I am unable to make quick trips home "just because" or go out and grab dinner on the fly. I am so thankful that they are able to make trips out for the weekend. It definitely is something I look forward to and will never tire of!



5 comments:

Michelle Y said...

Tell J that those earrings really look nice on him! I'm glad you had a good time with your parents!

Gena said...

I'm so glad they got to come in for the occasion! I'm the same way whenever Mom leaves; I just want to hole up in my room for awhile and pretend she never left.

Caroline said...

I understand about the goodbyes! Even though my parents don't live as far away as yours do, it is still not like I can just meet them for dinner or see them whenever I want! And, isn't it crazy how they become "friends" when you have your own kids!?!?!

Anonymous said...

I still cry everytime.....the coming and the going...When we meet them at the airport and I catch a glimpse of them I just lose it....I wish I could go "home" more.....but am glad that my family HERE (that means you) makes me feel at HOME! I love you and I love Mimi & POP too!

Shelby said...

Looks like you had a sweet time... enjoyed the cute pics! I haven't lived "close" to my parents, really since going to seminary, and that was back in 1996. I never have really gotten over that either! It is VERY hard not to be able to hang out more often, to just drop by "because" and do other things with your folks who DO become your friends after you become an adult. I still get teary and depressed either after we've been to visit them or they've been to visit us, and I don't figure that will ever change!

I too, am thankful for K's family being here (a true blessing to have at least one of our families near) and to have friends who are considered family as well.